One question that I find difficult to understand. Many posts I read indicated that they either reach acceptance within 1 year of BD or else it increases to 2-5 years. On the other hand, there are posts that say it is a marathon and 1 year is too less. Can someone help shed some light on understanding this?
Is there a way to recognize her moving closer to acceptance based on changes? Do any of these indicate anything? If she did not respect me earlier but is showing more respect now. If her blaming me for everything has stopped or reduced If she starts talking about the good in the marriage instead of rewriting history as bad If she compliments me on looking better since the BD
