I think you should be open to moving back in if your lawyer feels it is advantageous.
Agree.
Also ask L about legal protecting so W can't just take your child.
W:"What are doing back here bla bla" H:"I decided it is best if I am here" W:"Bla bla bla bla" H"I understand you feel that way" W"Bla bla bla bla
Take over the master bedroom. W:"WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? go sleep on the couch bla bla bla" H:"I will be sleeping here in MBR, you are free to sleep where ever you like" W"bla bla bla bla" H"I am sorry you feel that way"
Im in the UK and the grounds for abandonment are based on consent of both parties. Consent was given (actually requested!) by W for ‘space and healing’ purposes so there are no grounds there afaik. W knows that my apartment has a 6 month lease and so there are a couple of months yet before this needs to come to a head of some sort. I’m thinking that the above quotes are entirely appropriate in around 8 weeks time but don’t think I should panic and jump the gun. More DBing may be a better path for the next couple of months or so.
Patience is a virtue, no?
Obviously open to more opinion and discussion. This is very hard to comprehend nevermind make decisions on.
