Thank you so much IH. I will keep all that in consideration. At the time I confronted her she actually asked if I wanted her to leave. I told her I wasn't sure. I want to keep all the decisions in front of me not doing anything hasty.

H46
W38
M12
T15
D8,S7,S5

11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began
7/12/18 Confessed A
10/1/19 EA still happening with 2
4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"