I Was Jerk (Part 2)

[Ready2Change]

I did a search on the interenet and this stood out:

Just go straight ahead and get the matter before a judge as soon as you can. Don''t waste time and money trying to negotiate with someone who refuses to engage with the process.

I am thinking something like this:

H"W, When you say you want a divorce, but then refuse to negotiate, I feel frustrated. Negotiation is part of the divorce process. I have given you my proposal. I expect a response by (this date). If you do not respond, I will petition the courts asking for mediation. Thanks for your attention on this matter."


I learned that giving the other person two choices (both of which I am fine with) works well.