Complex WW and/or MLC #3

[P_Jam]

Hi Gekko,
I agree 100%. I take zero offense to anyone here (especially the vets). I agree with your mind reading comments as well. I TRY not too but I think its impossible to not try and interpret how some things are received by W. Of course I don't know if I'm right or wrong just making some basic assumptions. What I fully accept is that I could be wrong but hopefully that doesn't change my actions too much as I'm still trying to make the best decisions possible with the information that is available.

I agree with most of the advice on here with the exception of overall timelines and the fact that WW needs to be fully BROKEN before anything can be worked on. My "justification' for this uniqueness is nothing more than my own infidelity in my relationship. We are both LBS and therefore I believe there is some flexibility that needs to be utilized. It's not that I don't 'buy in'. Reading all the sitchs that I've read I too can see a lot of consistency. I'm also fearful that I'm just stubborn - so I welcome 2x4's as well. I'm just trying to be open and honest about how I'm moving forward regardless of what people may think/suggest. But I DO NOT DISCOUNT the different perspectives at all.