I am focused on myself and my kids. I am GAL and enjoying it.
I am committed to my M, icing take those vows in jest, but I will not stop h if he wants to d. At this moment he doesnt, I don't know if it's a mlc, don't like to put labels on it. Think h was and is always searching for something? What that is I have no idea.
All I can do is follow my path, it is easier to not contact him, now he has left our home, I only message him with kids stuff. Not that this is easy for me, desperately have a million thoughts that I want to ask hi., But no r talks unless brought up by h.
Reading all the validation cheat sheets, reminding myself not to interrupt when he speaks (I am terrible for that). Also not to turn the conversation to I (I do this, you should try). It's his journey as well.