I agree. She left you. She has no control over what you do. Its your choice to be the only one holding onto your vows or your choice to move on. They want to do whatever they want, but they want to be on control of you as well.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019