I often challenge S14 out of his confort zone. Like doing some new sport or similar. His first reflex reaction is saying "I can´t". He has learn to get a PMA so he says he´ll try.
Try it LB. Trust yourself. Free yourself. You need that space too.
Be strong there man. Time and patience.
I am trying to keep a PMA. I'm not always successful, and those days are the worst. I need to continue to work on this for me. I've never been much of a positive outlook guy, and that needs to change.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.