Steve 85. Your list of "to do's" are literally and exactly what I did before BD which made W feel she was being ignored, and I was "just off doing my own thing" while W wanted to just either sit and watch reality tv, get out with people, or road trip on a whim taking little responsibility for house maintenance on her end. It was always a struggle and a balancing act in completing things for me not only because of her social schedule but because I was doing most of the work, plus working and traveling. On my end, in all fairness, stiff would get backed up around the house because of work travel, or being too exhausted, or getting up too early and home too late. Then when I would take time to go to the range for myself every now and again, or tactical train, that was viewed as me being selfish not helping her enough. I miss going to the range. Haven't been there in a year. All this division of labor, and seperatism, and my demanding nature that W do her share, but me not completing mine is what mostly lead to the downfall. Loved cleaning my guns more than I did shooting them. Used to clean them once a month. I've transferred them else where since BD, "just in case", but W still retains pistol I got her that she has never fired. I was trying to get her for the range for 3 years for some safety and proficiency training. But she would never do it with me, or commit. Ironically now she's thinking about going there with Brothers ex-girlfriend who is now divorced some different guy. it's really strange all the things I want to do in the places I wanted to go 6 months to 5 years ago. Like growing crops homesteading living rural, being a minimalist, etc. Is all the things that the wife wants to do now away from me. All these things was never interested in before. My younger brother said it's not that she didn't want to do these things, she just didn't want to do them with you. My pool is black right now.m lol.. But ill get it clear. Have perfected that,
