So so new to this :(

[peacetoday]

I can relate to your feelings

I felt so much shame around my XH MLC and abandonment
It was so hard to even think about telling anyone the truth --until I did
therapy helped a lot


Once the shame is out of the bag it dissolves, and unfortunately MLC is everywhere so people understand

I was so concerned about the failure of my M at the time and being judged
then the same thing happened to my cousin and I could reach out to her with understanding-

My friends would be amazed at the way I handled my xh at the time and could not understand my compassion and forgiveness-and willingness to restore if possible-


Hang in there-
you are doing really well- even though you cant see it yet