So so new to this :(

[Nyla79]

Thank you so much DnJ and Grace21! Even though I wish I didn't even know about this forum, reading all the threads and getting answers helps so much!

Especially DnJ's correction to my writing, what a lightbulb moment! Such a simple thing and I didn't even realize I was doing it. Even when I know it isn't my fault he's acting the way he is, my initial reaction was of horror of what will people think of me now, because he has been such a good man, that obviously they will blame me for his affair. What a crazy way to think about this. And it doesn't really matter what people think, in the end.

Thank you for helping me thru this day!