So so new to this :(

[Nyla79]

Hi again,

So again my morning started out with craziness. I haven't really told people about my husbands affair or our crisis. Firstly because I think it's private and secondly we moved away from my homwtown 3 years ago, so I was hoping I didn't need to. My husband still travels to my hometown regulary. Now I heard from my sister that people from his work know about our separation and of his girlsfriend, which in a small town means that everyone knows.

I'm so angry and hurt (again) if he was going to go public with this, I would have wanted to know. Now I want to call him up and confront him, or at least let him know that EVERYONE knows now too. I don't think he has openly talked about his new girlfriend, but people have probably seen him with her on his trips. He has always been very careful about his reputation and I think it would bother him that people know. But most importantly it bothers me that my family now knows before I got to tell them.

So before acting I'm asking you all, should I say something or just not react? It does bother me because I was going for a visit to my homwtown in June, but now I really don't feel like going. I don't want to answer questions about my marriage.