Ok well J9 went for it tonight, said the words and she came back with "I am not quite there yet". LOL....well that was awkward and I guess I am not good at reading her. I actually have no regrets, I might have taken her by surprise as well. We were talking about something and then she starting talking about who loves her. So I said well I love you, while we were kissing and it came to a skreetching hault.
I guess we shall see how she handles it. What will be will be. At least I didn't throw out there in this purposeful romantic moment
