R2C's comments are great if you want to continue having sex.
You can use those words even if you have no intention on having sex with him in the foreseeable future.
I assume you want him back All is fair in love and war. Have fun playing with his emotions. Keeping him confused and thinking of you should be part of your "new personality".
What works is counter intuitive.
It is going to be a long ride and there are no guarantees.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
