This living with MLC'er really is a double edged sword..... actually I'm wondering if it isn't harder. My father is pushing me to get a L now. What I really want is to let go, forget about her (while I improve myself) but not be D. Does that make sense? Something I read said delay, delay, delay..... no D. Let her totally go, send her on her way but give as much time before closing the door forever.
