She’s absolutely making it clear by her actions where she’s at.
Some more background... sex was very intermittent during pregnancy and 1st year of each kid. So part of the last 2 years was us sort of trying to figure things out again.
I was hoping affection would return. Not sure she really needs or wants it, or if she's withholding. It would be nice to have an honest conversation about it, but we are way past that point and have bigger problems to solve.
