My h is a good manipulator of words and quickly turns everything to be my fault. I have made a stand before regarding sexual interaction and he turned it on me saying it's the only card I have so I will play that!!
I am confused as I have read a school of thought that if they still want to be intimate then you should be, it's good dam hard and a juggling act. I know having sex isn't to bring h back.
H is worried about me getting into another relationship, woah there I am healing from this one I ain't got the time or inclination to find validation from some other source. The d thing only raises its ugly head when I am going out and friends post comments, then h states that a d will be better to stop him hurting. Oh but I'm ok, and have to wait whilst his limmerance works it's way out of his system. H has always sort affirmation from others for a long time, h is confident and outgoing, only those that truly know him know he is lacking self esteem and is vunerable
