Solo, very sorry you are here! It sounds like you are doing the right things as far as GAL and giving him space.
Originally Posted by SoloUk
Good question I am missing physical touch, everyday my h and I would hug, kiss, holdhands and boom since July nothing. My h really confused me hiss LL is physical touch and in one conversation h asked me to iniate more, yes h did most of the iniating. I am so confused h is in a affair, but wants to see that I have changed??
H will not admit to affair, states we had separated etc
But you said you know he's having a PA? So he's lying? That's pretty typical so I'm not surprised, just checking to see if I'm understanding the situation. Here's the irony about a WAS having an affair, they usually will start avoiding physical contact with the LBS because they feel like they are cheating on the OP!!!! Sounds crazy but once they get serious with OP then that becomes Plan A and the LBS is Plan B. So they'll go all-in on the OP while just throwing the LBS just enough crumbs to keep them hanging on as Plan B.
