Went and saw the dr last night for about 2.5 hours. No new developments, I thought about telling her I loved her but got scared and didn't think while we were in bed was the most appropriate time. I did tell her I would like for her to meet some of my friends this coming up weekend and she agreed.

These friends are an older couple that my XW and I have known since our oldest D was 3 months old. The are really more like parents than anything else as min live roughly 5 hours away. These friends are also friends with my XW and they have met her BF as well. They are really my closest friends and outside of my neighbors and guys a play basketball with I don't have many people to introduce her to.

The dr's birthday is Wednesday so I am going to send her roses to her work and I got her a necklace as well. We won't get to celebrate it on the day so I will either take her out to dinner this weekend or have her over to my house and I will cook. I was going to bake her a cake as well but she told me not to as she is a cake snob I wouldn't eat it. I might just get a small cupcake instead as everyone needs to blow out candles and get sung happy birthday!

I realize it has only been 4 months and there really is no rush to do anything so I will just continue to remain patient.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018