Here is a way of looking at it. By her having two Affairs while finding herself that could be considered emotional abuse to you? Yes? If it's continually all about them leave them to their own devices. Believe me I get it the double standards and hypocrisy, the complete and total lack of accountability and selfishness. It's good that she's finally starting to come to her senses and slowly doing the work on herself. But I would smash the eject button anyway, just for fun, just to see where it takes me, just for the ride into the unknown. Lonely or not. Even if there wasn't an affair. Your life has the potential to be so much better without all the drama and bull$hit in it. Your life and your time is important to you. Much more important then of somebody who doesn't want to be with you