All right guys I'm pushing the divorce through on my sich. Feels great I feel like a weight has been lifted., looking forward to the new life ahead of me. Uni... They don't care when they do it to us. But over time they slowly start to realize the losses. One taking time and focusing on yourself and giving them so much space, realizing that you are still attractive and you are lovable and that there are people out there that would gladly spend their time with you, you regain your self-worth and you stand on your principles and you become the prize when you become the prize and are willing to lose it all, to gain it all over them. You take back your masculine frame. I really don't know if I'm being overconfident especially being at the starting line of all this and not at the finish line, I know it's going to be hard as hell, getting through the logistics in the agreements of things, set for once I actually see a future that's going to be great. Which is something that I've never done before. Uni, I don't know if this is advisable so ask the Vets on here, but I would just maximize their losses, not be punitive about it, and live on your own terms in your own way. Don't settle for anything less than full reconciliation, no breadcrumbs. Many people here do not want to be all or nothing to their spouses but ironically being All or Nothing, according to what I read here draws them back in. If you ever do draw them back and I would seriously take a considerable amount of time to think about it. I'm going on a business trip as well for a week and I'm driving right now looking forward to it so much. It's going to be awesome guy time between the wineries in the breweries in the area. I intend on having a blast. When I get back I'm getting more paperwork from wife start the divorce process. Even though she is in total agreement with all this, I can almost tell that because it's now my decision to move forward she's starting to have the fear a little bit because the decision isn't hers it's mine. For the first time I actually got some humility out of her of her acknowledging her own mistakes, rather than focusing on mine. Let them lose you. You will be great and you will do great and you will attract other people that think you are great into your life again. The way that this works is when you are powerful and you are more powerful than them, you are either going to attract them back or you are going to attract someone else even better into your life. I really don't even have that much lined up at this time, I'm flying by the seat of my pants and loving every second of it.
