A Real Mess Pt.2

[si13]

Ahh great. Spent the weekend hearing about how my distance, affect and short responses are triggering my W because of 10 years of emotional abuse.

I tried not to engage. I really did.

I just can't believe I'm still hearing this. I've given her all this time and we are still here 18 months later. She doesn't see it that way though. Because I didn't instantly change 18 months ago.

And oh by the way. YOU HAD 2 [censored] AFFAIRS LAST YEAR. But alas I get to hear how she didn't know who she was when that was happening. She is finding herself now, not getting involved with anyone and just working on herself.

I'm getting so tired of being expected to behave perfectly and have just the expected vocal and inflection she needs to feel safe.

All the while taking ZERO personal responsibility for her actions.

ANNNNNND she's out again tonight drinking with work friends.

This is working out well.