Yeah I feel myself pulling away. I guess her mindset that I have a personality disorder or I’m abusive are the scary thoughts. What will she try to do? It freaks me out. If anything she’s acting crazy, screaming at the kids today so loud I had to confront her (which she predictably did not like). I just said calmly “everybody in this house needs to stop yelling” and she got all angry and defensive. I guess I had enough of her taking out her inner turmoil on my kids. Then she went and cried in the other room. Oh well spent nice time with my kids. Time to go for business trip.