Awakened, my second point was you said she would you no chance. And you seem to hang on those words. Believe nothing to say. Positive or negative. Some LBS struggle because the WAS strings them along so they have too much hope and do the wrong things. Some struggle because the WAS is certain they'll never give them another chance, so they do the wrong things.
Believe nothing she says, and do not react emotionally to it. We all heard "no chance". DBing sometimes gives you a second chance. And even if not it will help you move forward.
And this ^ is a painful pill to swallow (again and again...) .
I really don't think is intending to jerk my chain - not her MO in the 20-odd years i've known her. She was quite clear with her intention.
Thankfully I'm coming the place where I'm beginning to cognate through this - accepting it for what it is and able to begin to visualize a healthier future (more of a near future...not beyond a few months...).
Thanks for the 2x4 to reality!!!
M-19, T-22 M-53, W 44 D15, S13 Separate BRs 02/2018 (during and after I had pneumonia) W (left separation - no A) - ? ~ 05/03-09/2019 BD 05/16/19
