Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Walks in the woods or through gardens are awesome and go hand in hand with EMDR therapy principles.

Call a friend. Go to meetup.com and make new friends. Go join a league or play a sport. I would go to Paneras and read or write around others.

If she won't return home bc you are there then that is on her. She wants out she can get out.

Do you have any friends you can go hang with?

Hey ovrrnbw -

Thanks for that - good ideas...

Friends here....that's the thing...she has never really been interested in making "couples" friends and i've been struggling with deprsn so haven't ventured out.... On a mild anti-deprssn for a while and last couple months starting to exercise b4 BD.

Yes, she wants out....OK.... but ya gotta take the mud when you ask for rain.


M-19, T-22
M-53, W 44
D15, S13
Separate BRs 02/2018 (during and after I had pneumonia)
W (left separation - no A) - ? ~ 05/03-09/2019
BD 05/16/19