You sound grounded and have a good foundation. It was very nice to read how your anxiety has lessened. It was also nice to read that your children are seeing things clearer as well. They are pretty perceptive and see through the lies.
Yeah, the 21st will be a hard day. You know you’ll get through it. Process the emotions and let them go - that’s a good plan.
Nice hearing from you. Hoping you have a great day.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.