Originally Posted by Steve85
Awakened, do you drink? First 180 is stop drinking. Being in your right mind is imperative for DBing.


Second, no chance. We all heard that. Even those of us that were able to save our marriage.

Third, talk to a lawyer. Pronto. You have a right to see your kids, so exercise they right. The lawyer can help with the joint account thing as well.

Listen to Cadet. Anytime you get his time your are very fortunate!

Thanks Steve -

Drinking - i don't drink alcohol (ever) or take drugs

I don't understand your second point?

Yes, i am coming to realization that i need some legal guidance/assistance

Thank you


M-19, T-22
M-53, W 44
D15, S13
Separate BRs 02/2018 (during and after I had pneumonia)
W (left separation - no A) - ? ~ 05/03-09/2019
BD 05/16/19