Sorry but... I’m frustrated, I’m triggered. Why do I have to put up with this for 2 more months? Why should I not just tell my W “listen we aren’t communicating well, I feel super distant from you, what is going on? Do you want to work on this or are you done?” Her put downs and disdain no matter what I do at this point. Why is she going to respect for me going away when that is exactly what she wants?!
You can say this. No one will stop you.
But if you do, you should be prepared to hear things you do not want to hear. Prepare for pain, prepare for wrath, prepare to be blamed for everything under the sun, even if you dont deserve all of it.
Trust me, U - she is not thinking in the same manner as you. Her perspective is not in alignment with yours. My W was the most sane, rational human I ever knew. Until 9 months ago. Flip the switch and within 3 weeks she makes zero sense anymore and has a wavering brain fog. Everyone sees it, and so many people tell.me she has changed.
but W thinks it's me that is causing all the problems. That's her truth. It's not an objective truth, but it is valid because it is hers.
