I believe we only grow through pain. Your H doesn't feel the lose, so he doesn't feel the pain, so he doesn't grow.


Anyway, thanks for the update. Focus on enjoying every moment. Get to a point where other people do not effect (or affect, I never know which one to use) your happiness.

HUGS

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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