That was a bit passive aggressive even if you didnt mean to be. If you want to decline just say "I am busy". If she presses just say "I have plans".
Remember you need to be mysterious, not cocky. If you have to say something referencing marriage just say "these are things I do with my wife. You fired me from that role"
At thanks SoTorn, I said it in a pretty upbeat joking way so hopefully didn’t seem too passive aggressive. I would use something like that fired line you gave me but my W keeps saying “we’re still married” so I’m not sure how that would play out.
Originally Posted by IHCLACS
Truth: We are all going to gravitate towards the sides that are the most agreeable with us and our perceptions in these situations.
Yeah you’re right IHC, I don’t think my W has found anyone supporting her decisions yet, she is probably looking.
I need some help guys. Today my W asked me to rub her neck. I said “only if you massage mine too”. Me doing things for her only because I expected something in return was a complain of hers in the R. So a 180 would be to do it without question. Per forum advice though, I shouldn’t be doing stuff like this as it is cake eating.
She got upset and said “see this is the problem”, and acted pretty withdrawn from me after. How should I handle situations like this? It’s more of the same if I ask for something in return or say no. But seems like temp check/cake eating if I do? Thanks
