You advanced the conversation by telling her what your plans were. Next time.just say you have plans so the convo can end sooner.
Also, you may consider not responding to 21 questions and just turning and walking. You have places to be and don't need to be late bc you were talking to a woman who isn't interested you.
Gotta be briefer, thanks! That’s a good take IHC definitely a lot of testing going on.
So went out last night with a bunch of guys who are in a group of mutual friends with my W. Large group that’s known each other for years. My W’s best friend in high school was and still is dating a guy in this group. I was introduced to the group through my W and although they were initially more her friends they are now far closer with me. (I am much more social than W).
So anyway had a great time with the guys, drinking and sports watching. Got looks from some ladies ya know. The highlight of the night was talking about the R with my friends. They all were super supportive and basically reinforced that W just breaking up the family and leaving without working on it, was not okay.
There was a day a few months ago after I cleaned out my fathers house after he died. We ended up going out with the same group of guys plus a few girls. I had an emotional day and got really drunk in response. Ended up throwing up at the house of one of the girls in the group.
So last night one of the guys told me that after that night I had thrown up, my W was basically bad mouthing me to the girl who’s house it was about how drunk I was and how annoying yada yada. The girl who’s house it was thought she was being so rude and disrespectful. I had apologized to the girl and she said “you just went through one of the hardest things in life. It’s understandable that you got so drunk.”
So yeah even the girl, who is much closer with my W than me recently told my guy friend that she thought my W was so rude and that her comments about me were unacceptable. Kinda nice hearing that my Ws friend and our mutual friends don’t support her actions/words.
