Right place?

[Awakened]

So during your marriage if your wife said "JUMP" did you ask how high?

I am going to assume the answer to this question is YES.

So this is something that you have to work on within your self.

Ha ha ha ha!!!!!

Oh my life - too funny. Yeah, no and that is big part of our 19-yr marriage disaster.

Unstoppable force meets immovable object. That's been us -

W didn't always instigate the conflict (shared - unknown %), but my failure was not backing down or responding in a more healthy way to diffuse it. Sort of like poking a bear with a sharp stick, eventually (when awakened), the bear is going to respond....