Neffer, I like the idea. Unfortunately, I'm not sure that it is executable. Even this morning with D16 out of the house, I felt that she felt some pressure. I didn't try anything, we just spoke about stuff and then she left to go to the office to catch up on some work.
If I were to initiate a getaway it would create pressure. It just would. IMO
I like the "Be the prey" but I'm not comfortable doing nothing.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
