Looking for feedback.

Update: W has stepped up her movement toward me. Living arrangements are the same, separate bedrooms etc. But there has been an even more increase in consideration and respect. A seemingly increased desire to spend time with me. Not just more of the same but an increase. If I weren't married to this person, I'd think she liked me. This has been going on for a couple of weeks.

I did drop a kiss on her on Mothers Day. It was short but she engaged. I bought and grilled steaks, no card with sappy anything from me. I think my efforts were acknowledged. Who knows.

So here's my question. What do I do, if anything, with this movement towards me? I feel like I need to be intentional.

Wait and see? Try to initiate sex? Remind her that I plan to skedaddle by year-end if things are never going to change?
Something else?
Thanks for any input.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.