If I listened to everyone here at BD, removed my emotions, really put my balls in front of me like I said I would post BD. Didn't leave the MBR, and then take it back after a month. Told the W at BD to pack her $hit, get out of the house, and go live by her mother's if she wanted space. I probably wouldn't be as escalated as far into my sich today. Ego or not. I'm jumping off the limbo fence , and pulling the trigger on the D. No man should ever allow his W to give him ultimatums. PERIOD. Anytime a woman wants to trade up for a life without you, or with someone else. Cut the damn reel. Get used to being alone. Accept it, make friends with it again. Be comfortable in your own skin. Invest in yourself, and you will attract someone on your level the 2nd time around.