I'm glad to hear D is warming up to therapy. I'm a big proponent of counseling but I was highly resistant as a 16hr old when my parents made me go after my brother died. It's normal for a teen/tween to be skeptical at first.
In terms of H your anger is justified. F#$@ him.
As to OLD, I hear you about finding lots of strange eggs out there. I feel similarly that people my age seem old to me. Of course most of them have kids. Its hard. Be patient. I don't see shirtless poses, but lots of car selfies, bathroom selfies, duck faces, and Snapchat filters (cringe). I will also say that the quality may vary greatly by the site/app you are using and different ones are better in different locales. I have had the most success on Hinge and Bumble but results obviously may vary. Regardless, congrats on putting yourself out there.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
