Soon to separate, Possible WAW

[SoTorn]

They don't want you to have a life and have fun. Its not an ego boost when you arent interested. My EXWW started harassing me badly when I started GAL.

Where are you going?
Why are you always gone?
Why dont you answer when I call?

I stayed at a friends house overnight a few weeks after confirmation of PA. EXWW met me at the door literally. Then started accusing me of doing things like drug binges etc.

They don't want to see you happy. They want to see you struggling, pining for them. You have to show them that you don't care, even if you do. You need to show them that you are more important than they know and that they are going to lose you if they don't shape up.