FS I am SO pleased to hear of D12s attitude after her 2nd session. That is great news.
Understand your feelings towards H at the moment, so I don't have much to say on that. I'm sorry that it happened and that it is happening. Hopefully eventually there will be some sort of resolution as to how he can work through it better with you next time. That might not come for a bit, but I hope it comes.
I don't even know what to say about the OLD site. I'm guessing DV is leaving you a virtual high-five. But I think you'll find the normal people eventually. If you just activated it remember that people do cycle through it, so just keep it as a possibility. It only takes 1 interesting person to lead to an interesting date. In being open to the dating site perhaps that will open up something in your universe and you'll meet someone interesting while at the grocery store instead. You've opened one door to peek inside but don't forget there are so many others that also may open simultaneously. Don't worry if there isn't anything interesting behind Door #1.