PS I know I said it before, but there is no way in [censored] i would go to a MC with a W that didn't want to work on the R.
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I agree with your sentiment. But dumb question - how do I figure out my W's intention here? She is an emotional brick wall and reveals nothing.
I wanted to know. So i bit the bullet and asked her if she wanted to go to MC to work on the R. Yes, it started a fight and yes it was emotionally exhausting. But I got my answer - "no".
So I listened to her and respected her wishes.
Sorry one of us didn't pop in to talk you off the ledge but yeah, that was a very predictable outcome. You temp checked her and you got BD'd all over again. At least now you know and can go about the business of giving her time and space.
As for this question:
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how do I figure out my W's intention here? She is an emotional brick wall and reveals nothing.
The very fact that she's being a brick wall IS showing her intentions. She wants nothing to do with you, that's WHY she's a brick wall. You'll know it if she ever decides she's interested in reconciling because that wall will come down. Read Steve's sitch to see what that looks like.
