InLove, the approach you take is up to you. It's just a huge red flag to me that he's still pushing for S. I've seen so many situations over the years where the WAS "dangles the carrot" because they have a secret agenda. It's not always clear what the agenda is, but it's been quite consistent that when they say one thing (or two or three things) and do another, the stuff they were saying was all just a smokescreen. Sometimes they do it to hide an affair, sometimes they do it because they want more child custody, sometimes they do it because they want to gain a financial advantage in S or D. But inevitably, when they say they have hope for a great future while continuing to pursue S or D, they are just plain lying. So just keep your guard up. Good luck.
