To be clear.. I will ASK her if she wants to date again and be fully clear about my no OM requirment. Not just assume and begin pursuing. I will give her every opportunity to stop all of this if she so chooses. But because we have both done the same thing to each other, I do not want to push her away unnecessarily. She has a real REASON to never come back to me (unlike many other sitch's here)


H(me:) 44
W: 45
T: 16yrs
M: 13
S: 9
S: 6
Pre BD (not really recognized by either) 8/18
PA 11/18
PA suspected 12/22/18 (Denied)
PA confirmed 12/28/18
PA #2 (Different) 2/16/19
S: 4/7/2019