I haven't followed the prescribed advice exactly in terms of boundaries because I'm trying to keep an air of normalcy while I collect evidence, but there's really so much comfort in detaching. The more I've let go the better I've felt. I'm almost to the point of indifference now and it's so much easier to function day-to-day. I'm almost excited about the next person if that time comes.

Sounds like you're doing well! I'm still new myself, but your last post reads well and is motivating.

Last edited by oops13; 05/17/19 05:11 PM.
May: discover PA
April: MC pending IC, back in MBR, discover EA
March: different bedrooms, IC
Jan 19: ILYBINILWY