Not that I've seen much interest in your sense Halsey, but somewhat in another sense here and there in my situation. It makes absolutely no sense. They love to try to dangle you on a string for one last hoorah with their temp checks. My last hoorah was back in Dec. They seem to have every intention on proceeding forward in life without you. This friendzone $hit really p@ses me off. It's like they have this whole other life plans ahead of them for their future, they don't care about you're prior history together, but keep looking back just to feed their ego. I think you handled that situation perfectly, keep them on their toes.
Yeah IHC it is annoying. It’s all about them and they disregard years of history. I think the best thing we can do is look ahead toward our own plans and how our life can be better without them, as hard as that can be. Yeah the temp checks are coming on strong and often at the moment, hopefully a sign that I’m detaching well.
Originally Posted by LH19
Your W is very immature. If you don’t want to be friend zoned stop doing friend zone thins like watching TV with her. You should of put your son to bed and said “I’m going out for awhile”.
Yeah you’re right LH, I think I’m doing well in certain areas but then I go and do that haha. Been great at GAL during the day/evening but could do more at night. Thinking I will go out tonight then. Yes she is immature, always gets so upset if she doesn’t get her way, could be due to her anxiety but it isn’t acceptable either way. Looking forward to separation in a way because I know it will be so much easier for me to do LRT and not slip up by watching tv with her or other similar things.
