Settling In (LB55 Thread 3)

[LB55]

W has been texting me all evening. ‘When are you going to be here tomorrow?’ ‘Give me a time frame so I can plan!’ ‘Surely you can get off early.’ She is getting quite agitated!

Must have a killer date!

I just keep telling her I get off about 4 and will text her when I leave.

Good, just stick to business. It sounds like she's trying to trigger you. Just let it roll off of you, not your problem. Oh and don't feel obliged to answer every single text if she just keeps saying the same crap. Just say "I've already told you I will be there at the normal time, please plan accordingly and don't keep asking. I will inform you as soon as I can if anything changes."

I didn't reply to all of her texts. I replied twice with the same answer and then stopped replying.

I felt the same way, she is just trying to get me agitated because she knows that if she can push my buttons she is still in control. Unfortunately she can push my buttons, but I am getting WAY better at not showing her that she has pushed my buttons. This is key in my opinion.