InLove, ok there are some baby steps. But the red flag for me is still the push for a separation agreement. As if he is playing nice so you will too.
What would be the point of doing a separation? I had already agreed to sell the house. What would be the point of talking about our marriage and how we are healing it? I have never known this man to be a game player. He is usually genuine. Truthfully, if he was a terrible husband, I wouldn't be hanging on. He has been a good husband, sweet and doting, over the years.
He claims the separation papers protect us both to split it all 50/50. He says he doesn't want to rush repairing our marriage because there was so much fighting and the patterns we were in need broken. He also said he has to get his mother to accept me.
