Never been a hug fan of the strip clubs. Unfortunately she can't take a trip for any length of time. She just opened her practice 7 months ago and is the only doctor so she can't leave or shut the doors. When she is more established then she will feel more comfortable doing it.
The week that I have my girls we only get to see each other 1 time which is either on a Friday or Saturday night. I will try to find a sitter, arrange a sleep over or like tomorrow send them to a local gymnastics place that does parents night out on Saturdays from 6:30 to 10.
The weeks that I don't have my girls I will usually see her twice during the week after her son goes to bed and now that our weekends are aligned we have been out to her ranch twice, once on a Friday another time on a Saturday. We road around on her Polaris, shot guns, did some work around the place, drank, had dinner, etc. We usually go to the gym together on Saturday's and Saturday night we will usually go out (my girls also had soccer games on Saturdays as well) and I don't miss them). Sundays are tough with church and getting stuff done around the house before the girls come for the week so we usually part ways on Sundays in the morning. So we just don't have long blocks of time together.
My youngest plays basketball and I coach her team. She is playing this summer so we will have 1 practice during the week and games on Saturdays.
I did get us concert tickets to go see a band in August. Now that it is summer we will also spend time on the lake boating. Once I meet her kid and she meets my girls its something we can all do together as well.
I'll do what I can to change it up some but so far time has been the biggest hinderance.