So so new to this :(

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Nyla

Everything you are feeling is normal--
It hurts a lot in the beginning but as time goes on we heal-

As I look back I am grateful my XH left-
we were not in a good M and being with him was difficult at times even b4 MLC
he was an unavailable man
at that time I didn't realize that and only wanted him back-

The thing is you will know more later-
right now is a good time to create new acticities for you and the kids
Be very available to the kids
stay busy
make friends, get therapy, post read eat rest and sleep
create a good energy in your home for you and the kids
and trust in God or whatever spiritual beliefs you have-to get you all through this
get a L advice and know your rights-

heal and it will get better as time moves on

treat you H kindly , be cordial
but put yourself first as he is putting himself before you and the kids and the MLCer is manipulative and lies
do not trust him at all-