So so new to this :(

[Nyla79]

I have a follow up question. I'm so confused. My husband shows a lot of signs for MLC but at the same time when he talks to me he is always nice and even when he blames me for everything that he thinks was wrong in our marriage, he says it quite matter of factly. He wants to have the kids half of the time and so far he has done that also.

I only text him about kids when I have to. He does the same, but many times he also wants us to meet face to face to talk about them. He's drowning himself with work, working 60-80 hours a week. I don't know if the affair is still going, I'm assuming it is as I heard from a friend that the girl has rented her apartment out in Germany, so now my fear is that she's moving to Spain to be with him. Which is insane since they've only known each other since mid February!!!

Could this be something other than MLC? What should I do?

I'm so sad, and I do my best to GAL, but I just want him back so much. I think I was doing better already but now I'm down again.