Your statement is confusing (which is good in some sense).
Maybe working Saturday as well. Maybe help W on Sat.
If she ask about sat again:
H:"I told you I was busy"
Thanks Ready, So yeah I told W I was busy Saturday. Kept it short but that I wouldn’t help get mattress. We had swim class with S today, I am considering doing this alone with S after W moves out, even though she is convinced we will still do shyt like that together. Cake eating...
Some journaling from today: Before we left she said “will you take me to dinner after swim class?” I smoothly replied “take you to dinner? I only take girls I’m dating to dinner”. She got all upset over this and began spewing a bit. “What!? Who are you dating? What girls? We are married!” To this I replied “not when you move out in a few days” or something like that. Anyway she was all hyped up that I had said that and wouldn’t drop it till after swim. I wasn’t implying that I was dating yet but that I only take my romantic interests to dinner, not this weird friend zone husband and wife limbo.
When we got home I put S to bed and started doing some work around the house. W asked me to come watch a show with her. I said I’m busy but maybe in a little. I was pretty beat after work, hockey and swim class so I ended up on the couch watching with her. She kept touching me with her feet. There was some flirting and eventually a comment was said about s*x. I forget exactly what but I said, “I’m always down to mess around.” To which she replied “one last hurrah eh?” I replied “yup”. So to me this meant in her mind we are done, or maybe she is trying to get a reaction out of me. Don’t know don’t care just a thought.
We had some chit chat and at one point she started shyt testing me. Something about emotional men were on TV and she said “you’re an emotional man, a real basket case. Stage 5 clinger”. All of which is nowhere near accurate in describing me because if anything I’ve been emotionally distant to her lol. She must have been hoping for a reaction but only got a side ways “uh what” glance from me. Later I said something to her and refer to her as a “friend” hahaha. She got all pissed and said “were married!!” Not trying to be a jerk and I said it in a joking manner but I want no doubts that I’m not being her plan B.
A bit later I got up to do my GAL before bed activity, reading. She asked where I was going and acted a little upset when I left. Crazy WaWs am I right? She is walking out of the marriage and moving out of the house but is upset that I walk away from her watching hours of reality tv. Seems about right. That’s it for now, thanks.
