Speaking of time. Im glad you mentioned that, which leads me to my next reply. Something hit me on the way home. Your time is important, its always important, its much more important than someone that wants nothing to do with us. Think about this in terms of women's biology, mindset, dating, attraction, etc. Its what they value most. Probably the reason why prior marital history no longer means anything to them anymore. Its in the past. Women want change, and Men want things to stay the same. The only thing they see is a future without us! Here is another thought or two. I noticed the more I GAL and go out which is far and few in between, the W ramps it up as well. Something occurred to me with GGW/New clothes new perfume/purses/make up, spa and nail treatments, etc. Ever notice, especially when you have young kids, people kind of let themselves go? Then just after BD on both parties, people start trying new things, good, clothes, PEOPLE, company, goals, etc, They start going out a lot kind of as an escape. Not only from the kids, but from the spouses. I believe a part of it is self care, and another part of it, whether intentional or not is not only a self esteem booster, but I also think it's meant to attract other people. In other words. Its mentally living the single life while still being married until divorce. Its funny how we all go looking for the fountain of youth. So act single. Think single, do all the things you did when you were single. Not for just a reaction, but just because its nice to feel attractive again.
